Things That You Shouldn’t Do When You Are Trying to Get Your Ex Back

Know when you lose a girlfriend you automatically ask yourself, how do you get your ex back? Well I am not sure but what I do know is what not to do. How do I know this? Well, I have tried to get a lot of ex girlfriends and none of them came back to me. So I guess I am pretty good at doing the wrong things, and yes you are going to learn them.

First let’s give a list on what not to do:

• Don’t call her ten times a day.
• Don’t call email her ten times a day.
• Don’t follow her around.
• Don’t hang out by her locker waiting for her.
• Don’t leave notes on her windshield

Those are some good reasons, now let’s go over them and see why these are not good things.

Don’t call her ten times a day:

First if you two broke up and it was her decision, then she probably does not want to talk to you. Second, if she was regretting it, hearing her phone ring all day because of you would let her know that it was ok not to regret it. She would automatically remember why she broke up with you.

Don’t email her ten times a day:

If your ex does not check her email but maybe once a week, that is 70 messages that she has to delete which does not help you, and if she checks her email everyday then she is once again reminded of why she dumped you.

Don’t follow her around:

If she broke up with you then she does not want you around, and if she is still interested in you it sill end pretty quick. You don’t like a fly buzzing around in the car do you? Well neither does she!

Don’t hang out by her locker waiting for her:

If she does not want to see you and you are by her locker then she has to carry all of her books to each and every class with her. That would not look good for you at all, in fact that would probably get you beat up by her big brother.

Don’t leave notes on her windshield.

All that does is making her look bad because it looks as if she has had a parking ticket, not to mention her reaction to thinking she got a parking ticket in a public parking lot! Then when she finds the letter that you left for her so innocently, if you do this then most likely you will not get her back.

Know that you now some of the things not to do, ask yourself again, how do I get my ex back. Well don’t do those and you will have a chance, but when you get home tonight ask your big brother, how do I get my ex back? He should be able to help you. Go to this page straight away to learn specific strategies on getting your ex back

About the Author:

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Elaine is the author of the book 101 Reasons Why Men Stop Calling that you can preview at her site at Why He Doesnt Call. She is a recognized authority on the subject of Dating and Relationships with over ten years of experience. Her book Find Your Future Husband which can be previewed at her website, http://meetandcatchaman.com/ provides a wealth of information, tips and tactics on everything you'll ever need to know about finding and marrying the right man. Learn how to find a man who wants commitment.

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